assessment, when selecting options, 1 is false, 5 is true.I feel like I don’t recognize the person that I am caring for. please select an option..Every day I wish that I could have the old person back. please select an option..Reflecting on old memories makes me upset. please select an option..I find it hard to deal with the changes in the person I care for.please select an option..I have to change my actions to suit the new personality of the person I care for.please select an option..I sometimes have feelings of anger/resentment toward the person I care for.please select an option..I feel that I will never be able to accept what happened, or have closure.please select an option..
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My 14-year-old son and husband were in a car accident a few years ago. Although my son escaped with only mild injuries, my husband faced a severe traumatic brain injury. At the hospital, we were told he may not live, and if he did, he would not be the same man he once was. As the weeks went on, everyone told us how lucky we were that my husband survived the accident. But it never felt as though we were lucky. It felt like I wasn’t a wife anymore, that I'd really lost my husband. The man I am married to now is a different man than I stood at the altar with 20 years ago. My son is having difficulty getting past the tragedy. It is hard for him to understand his father’s personality changes. We are unable to grieve the loss of our family member because he is still here, but it feels as though he isn’t. Bit by bit we are learning to accept him as the person he is. It's like getting to know a new person but it has gotten better over time. I expect it to keep getting better with more time.
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PERSONAL STORY
My 14-year-old son and husband were in a car accident a few years ago. Although my son escaped with only mild injuries, my husband faced a severe traumatic brain injury. At the hospital, we were told he may not live, and if he did, he would not be the same man he once was. As the weeks went on, everyone told us how lucky we were that my husband survived the accident. But it never felt as though we were lucky. It felt like I wasn’t a wife anymore, that I'd really lost my husband. The man I am married to now is a different man than I stood at the altar with 20 years ago. My son is having difficulty getting past the tragedy. It is hard for him to understand his father’s personality changes. We are unable to grieve the loss of our family member because he is still here, but it feels as though he isn’t. Bit by bit we are learning to accept him as the person he is. It's like getting to know a new person but it has gotten better over time. I expect it to keep getting better with more time.
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My 14-year-old son and husband were in a car accident a few years ago. Although my son escaped with only mild injuries, my husband faced a severe traumatic brain injury. At the hospital, we were told he may not live, and if he did, he would not be the same man he once was. As the weeks went on, everyone told us how lucky we were that my husband survived the accident. But it never felt as though we were lucky. It felt like I wasn’t a wife anymore, that I'd really lost my husband. The man I am married to now is a different man than I stood at the altar with 20 years ago. My son is having difficulty getting past the tragedy. It is hard for him to understand his father’s personality changes. We are unable to grieve the loss of our family member because he is still here, but it feels as though he isn’t. Bit by bit we are learning to accept him as the person he is. It's like getting to know a new person but it has gotten better over time. I expect it to keep getting better with more time.
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My 14-year-old son and husband were in a car accident a few years ago. Although my son escaped with only mild injuries, my husband faced a severe traumatic brain injury. At the hospital, we were told he may not live, and if he did, he would not be the same man he once was. As the weeks went on, everyone told us how lucky we were that my husband survived the accident. But it never felt as though we were lucky. It felt like I wasn’t a wife anymore, that I'd really lost my husband. The man I am married to now is a different man than I stood at the altar with 20 years ago. My son is having difficulty getting past the tragedy. It is hard for him to understand his father’s personality changes. We are unable to grieve the loss of our family member because he is still here, but it feels as though he isn’t. Bit by bit we are learning to accept him as the person he is. It's like getting to know a new person but it has gotten better over time. I expect it to keep getting better with more time.
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